i came out to my mom awhile ago she was ok with it my dad called me an abominnation (i still havent forgiven him in that) and he is in denial.
May 4th, 2011 at 02:17pm
Just don't bug him about it? It can take a long while to figure out your (gay) feelings and 'coming out' is a major (and usually pretty scary) decision to take, feeling extra pressure from your friends to rush into it isn't very helpful. Be grateful that your friend trusted you enough to share with you such sensitive information and let them know you support all their choices, are proud of them, won't judge them, are there for moral support if they need it, etc. It might be helpful to check out PFLAG and become more active in local LGBT / allies orgs like GSA (if you're still in high school?). Ultimately, the most effective thing you can do to make queer people feel more comfortable with themselves is help fight homophobia, since that's the main reason behind the uncomfortableness in the first place.
- Rae-Dene:
- i have a friend that is 'still' in hiding...he wont come out because 'it's wrong' even though he has told me many times that he finds _______ cute...he'll get scared and deny ever saying it. the sad part is, is that if he would come out to one or two people we could help him with his problems instead of him hiding and i wish so bad that i could help him!!! and i know that i cant 'make' him come out but he already told me he likes guys and then said he doesnt and then said he does...so anyone with any idea on how i can help him become more comfy in his own skin??? and no im not gay