V For Virgin.

I was 14, and it was stupid I regret it.
I was with the guy for over a year before we did, but I wish I would have waited.
I'm just tired of hearing about sex all the time.
when I told my mom, she cried = (

My friend asked me if I wanted to go out with her tonight, and basically sleep around in town. She has a boyfriend, but doesn't know anything about relationships other than sex. And, while she's with him, she thinks nothing of sleeping around with heaps of other guys.

She's 14, and been doing this for a couple of years now.

I don't think she's ever going to be in a relationship for anything other than sex, because that's what she thinks the only thing is.

I'm a virgin.
Yippee.

But where I am, if one person has sex, alot of people who are friends with them follow the cliche and have sex too.
It's stupid.

D:

It's stupid to follow everyone else.
You shouldn't go out and have sex just because other people are doing it.

My friend is 14 and has been with her boyfriend about 1 month and he is already trying to pressure her into sex.I keep trying to tell her to wait but I'm afraid she won't.They've already done things and it wouldn't surprise me if she did just go ahead and have sex.She even told me they would've but he didn't have a condom.I was reileved that she said no because he didn't have protection.

I plan on being a virgin till I find a guy that I want to spend my life with.

i'm going into grade 11 in september.
and pretty much all my friends are faaar from virgins.
and by that, i mean like they hook up with many, many people.
one of my [girl] friends has hooked up with about 32 people this year; some of them being girls.
not saying ALL my friends aren't virgins - i still have quite a lot of friends who are.
but still, half of me is happy that i don't make myself seem that "whore-ish" to people.
but the other half of me is extremely jealous.
it's not like i don't think about having sex - i do. quite a lot, actually.
and i know i'm young, but i feel like i'm ready and that i can handle it, as "childish" as that may sound.
and i get all paranoid. like i feel like i'm going to grow up to be like the 40 year-old virgin.

euuuh...

^ It's different when you feel ready and when you actually do it.
I guess that's why you always get into a panic before you actually do it.
I watch films. :shifty

Don't worry. I've never done it. Hell, I've never had a boyfriend. I'm only 13.

I'm seventeen and I'm still a virgin, and frankly, I'm proud of myself for it. It's not like I look down on people my age who aren't, but I kind of feel sorry for them. I mean, to me, love is not about sex, sex should be about love. That's the way I see things. I only want to have sex with one person in life and that is the person I plan on spending the rest of my life with.

A lot of people at my high school have had sex and had way before we reached senior year, and I'm betting if they knew I was a virgin, a lot of people would laugh, but I'm only seventeen years old. That's really still young. I still have my whole life ahead of me. I've seen way too many people have sex then turn around to regret it. I don't want to lose my virginity with someone I'll later grow to regret.

That's just all my opinion though of course.

I plan on staying a virgin until after highschool. I know so many people my age that have already done it, and it's kind of sad to think about how no one seems to think that sex is a big deal anymore. I'd much rather wait for the right person than do it at the first possible opportunity just do get it over with like some people do. But it's funny--I think about sex probably as much as a guy does, and yet I'm terrified of doing it because of the inevitable pain. >.<

i'm still a virgin at 15, and i'm proud.
i almost gave in a few months back to my boyfriend of almost a year.
but i'm glad he broke up with me soon after i told him no.
it would of been a huge mistake on my part.

and yeah, i know i sound young. but the unfortunate thing about it is thats an old age in my town to still be a virgin. :/

-Sigh- Right now I'm going to a school notorious for being known as the 'slutty' school.
I swear all the girls at my school are sluts
and all the boys are manwhores.

Everybody and I mean everybody lost their virginity at 8th grade at my school.
I know because everyone tells me. :file:

But, yea it's kinda gross how everybody wants to lose their virginity so young.
To be honest sex isn't really that great, if it's just some random thing when you're crunk [which is how half of the kids at my school lost their virginity.]
Mhm. I'm gonna stop rambling now. :D

I agree with the others who've said that it's more about if you're ready for it, rather than how old you are. Eleven? Too young. Twelve? Still too young. But if you decide you want to lose it and you actually know what you're doing, go for it. The problem is that people treat it like it's no big deal.

I was sitting next to my friend Justin in math class a couple months ago and he goes, "Olivia, are you a virgin?" I told him that I was, and he said, "Yeah right." No matter how much I tried to convince him that I was, he didn't believe it. And I don't dress like a slut, act like a slut, or do anything to give the impression that I'm not a virgin. (And he still didn't believe that I'm a virgin.)

That's how casual it is these days.

hellocentral:

Lonna Lullaby.:

I told my mom I was ready for it. And she asked me "with who?" I said I didn't know and she replied "wrong answer," and walked off.

Your mom is a wise woman.
I, too, am a virgin. I don't plan on changing that anytime soon.

Tell me about it. She doesn't really mind. My mom just wants me to make sure it's with someone that cares about me. I can't stay a V forever and she knows that. It's a blessing to have a mother that understands (sometimes).

I still am. I'm in no hurry, tbqh. :shifty

I have a feeling my friends are starting to really care about it and thinking they should lose it for the sake of losing it.

I'd rather not make a stupid mistake and regret it later.

I think you should wait till you are 110% ready. Nowadays kids loose their virginity way to early. I think you should keep your childhood as long as you can because you cannot get it back. There is so much time for sex in your life. I also waited for the right guy and I don't regret the waiting. Even if our relationship is long gone in history, I'm glad I did it with him, because I felt secure and I trusted him, and that's really important.
If you feel ready, most important thing: never forget to use a condom!

I'm a virgin and I love it. My mom is like I hope it lasts into her twentys I don't see the point in giving it up unless you really love that person. In my religion it is not against it to have Premarital sex, but that doesn't mean I will or want to. I am like the anti-slut. My best friend had sex she's 14 but it wasn't the first time she had it. And she didn't use protection and got pregnant. I mean my own father can't touch me, because it overwhelms me. I think sex isn't something that should be rushed. You can only lose it once, but I mean why the hell do you need to lose it. Is it to be cool? I mean I just don't see why at 13 {she lost it at about that age} you need to be having sex. But I believe in protection so use it or face the consequences. My doctor said to go to a Gyno like before you become sexually active so in that six weeks you can decide if you are ready or not.
Edit: I think guys shouldn't pressure girls into it or girls pressuring guys. If you really like or love that person you'll wait til the end of time right?

I lost mine under the legal age sometime last year to a guy who lost it in year 8. But to be fair we had been going out for a year and were very in love and wanted to express that love in ways he hadn't before. But my friend was always like 'OH I need sex!! I hate being a virgin!! need it a.s.a.p!!' Now THATS just stupid.

Proud Virgin. Waiting for marriage.

I'ma stay that way until marriage, simply because I don't think I could give anything so special to someone unless I know they are the one. I will know that person is the one if I marry them happily.

I know so many 14 year olds that lost their virginity before they even knew the true meaning of sex. Like, they knew what it was, but they didn't understand that it should only be had with someone special.

I'm 17 and a half and still a virgin. Hell, I only just had my first kiss 3 months ago...
And I didn't learn about the basics of sex until I was about 13...
Then I didn't learn everything about it until I was like, almost 17...
And now it scares me omgno:
I just don't feel the urge to go for it and lose it yet. Like, why does it matter if I'm still a virgin? To me, it seems so irrelevent. Who cares?

I've had a boyfriend for about 4 and a half months now, and I love him so so much. He's said he's ready for everything and that he'd not stop me doing it...but I also know that he's gonna wait for when I'm ready. He'd not break up with me over something so small and if he did, then he's not the one.
To me, sex seems like such a small part in a relationship. There's much more important things between us.

Someone posted about 8 and 9 year olds having sex!? Hell to me, even 16 is too young...
I mean fine, do it when you're ready and comfortable. But how can anyone so so young be ready for something so so mature?