- Danny Hampstead:
- Dear Jordan,
Wow. Can you imagine that you'll be getting ready to go off to college by this time next year? Is the thought of actually having to leave home for that long still scary, or are you looking forward to the experience? Are you still hell bent on doing a Study Abroad program, or are you just going to intern locally? How does dad feel? I'm sure he's going to miss you. Especially since he's going to have to take care of the cat. Oh, and did you pass Russian and German? I will be really pissed if you didn't. But I'm sure you'll pass them just fine. After all, you're doing tres fantastique avec Francais. (If you can't understand that, I'll be really disappointed in you.) While I'm on the topic of languages, did you do well in A.P. English? I know how much you like Kosiba as a teacher, and I hope she challenged you enough. You definitely needed it.
How did graduation go? Did you get any honors? Did Liz and everyone show up? Did mom come? I hope they all made it. I know how happy it would've made you. Also, did you make it to see Liz, Karen, Sarah, and everyone else graduate? And Anthony as well? I know that you were looking forward to both.
And speaking of Liz and the gang, how are they? Do you still talk to Liz? Well, of course you do. After all, she's been your best friend for almost twelve years. I'm sure it's not going to stop anytime soon. What about Sarah? Karen? Colin? Do you talk to any of them anymore? I know that you really miss talking to Sarah and Karen. Especially Karen. I hope that you re-connect with them and keep the connection open this time. Oh, and have you talked to Ashleigh at all? How is she? Are you still planning to cut her loose after you graduate? I know that will be hard for you because the two of you practically grew up together, but you can only take so much. And did she actually manage to get her G.E.D., or did she just quite school all together? It honestly wouldn't surprise me if she did. She's already half-way there now. Anyways, like I said,I wouldn't be surprised if you do cut her loose. But I'm still holding out hope for your friendship. At least, for now. After all, she's practically family.
And speaking of friends, have you managed to talk to Patrick at all? You need to keep in touch with him. After all, he was a good friend to you. The least you could do is return the favor by talking to him, even if he's off to college in the next month and a half.
Oh, and how is Erin? It's been a while since you two have talked. Are you still planning to make a pilgrimage to meet her in person? And if you did actually meet her, how did it go? I'm sure she's not much different in person than over the 'net.
Anyways, have you been talking to mom more? What about Makenzie? I know you miss her a lot. It's only normal to miss your little sis, especially when she's growing up so fast that it makes your head spin. Speaking of them, how are they? Is mom still with him? I hope she isn't. She deserves someone so much better than him. And if she did leave him, did she move back to Plainwell? Is Makenzie's dad still being an uptight ass? I don't know why I asked, because he probably is. He's never changed.
Back to talking about college...
Which one did you make it into? Marquette? Alma? DePaul? Was it any of those, or did you go somewhere else? Are you going to major in Foreign Languages and learn all the ones you planned on learning, or did you change your mind again? I hope you didn't change your mind again. That would be a nightmare! And your poor school counselor!
I'm pretty sure that you're still as open-minded as ever, so I'm not even going to ask about any of that. But did you ever make it to a protest supporting gay rights? You've been planning on that for some time, so I hope you make it to one. And I hope you still plan to join a GSA club, or something along the lines of it, when you get to college.
Are you still a Mibbian, or have you become too busy to bother? Do you still write stories that are mostly fan-fiction? Are you still hung up on slash? I bet you are. I know how much you love that stuff. Has your writing changed at all? Not that it was bad to begin with. (Okay, it was. But that was a long, long time ago. So let it go.)
And last but not least, I have some odd-ball questions for you that I couldn't group together.
Do you have your driver's license yet?
Do you still have your car?
How is Alyssa's baby? Is he healthy and cute? And are they still together or not?
Do you have a job, or did you never get one?
How's the family?
Do you still complain about all the things that you can't control?
Did you go camping again with Scot and Jenny? Did you hurt yourself this time?
Did you see My Chemical Romance or Green Day like you wanted?
Did you get your tongue pierced yet? (You've wanted that for a while.)
Have any tattoos yet?
Are you going to learn to play the piano?
Did you take those sign language classes? If you did, did you pass and was it fun?
Did you go to prom like you said you would?
Did you actually go and see one of Plainwell's shows, like you wanted to last year?
Did you go to an MDA camp with dad?
Do still want to be a surrogate mother?
Still like all those bands? (I hope so.)
And most importantly, how are your knees? Do they still hurt, or are they getting better?
Anyways, that's all I have for you. (Yes, I know it's a lot. But you're a complex person who asks a lot of questions.)
But all I really want you to do within the next year is keep your goals; and reach them, obviously. Get into college. Pass Russian and German. And continue both. But most of all, have a good senior year. The rest would just be a big, happy bonus. (Oh, and seriously, learn how to play the damned piano. You hate not playing an instrument anymore.)
See ya next year! (You better answer all these damned questions!)
- Jordan
(I know it hasn't quite been a year yet, but whatever. Doing it now before I get too busy.)
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Dear me,
Y'know, I'm two months away from moving and I still can't wrap my mind around the fact that I'm
leaving. The though of leaving home is both kinda scary, yet exciting, because I'm still going to be in-state, but far enough away that I'll miss everyone.
Yes, I still want to do Study Abroad. Actually, where I'm going to college, I'm required to do
two, so.... yeah. Fun times lie ahead. Although, I wouldn't mind interning in Chicago or New York. That would be kind of fun.
I'm not sure. I think once I'm gone, he'll miss me. I know I'll miss him after a week or so.
By some miracle, yes, I passed Russian German. Although, I ended up dropping out of the second semester of Russian. It was just too much. And yeah, I did alright in AP. Almost failed the first semester 'cause I didn't turn stuff in on time, but I had one-hundred percent throughout the entire second semester, so I did alright.
It was
hot during graduation. I mean, ungodly hot. But it doesn't help that it was in the middle of the day. And no, I didn't get any honors, but I did graduate with a 3.3 GPA, so.... not bad.
No, they couldn't make it. Too much going on. But I did get to see them and Anthony graduate.
They're good. All are busy preparing to go to college and all that fun stuff. And of course I still talk to Liz. Not as much as I like, but still... it's better than nothing. No, I don't really talk to everyone else as much.
And yeah, I've talked to Ashleigh (ironically, she's in the living room at the moment). I don't know how she's doing. She won't talk about it. But I'm not sure about cutting her loose once I move. I don't want to, but I might have to.
Haven't talked to Patrick at all, and I probably won't.
Erin is the same. We're talking more, which is a plus. Although, I'm pretty sure it's just because we're both out of school. Haven't met her yet, but I yes, I still plan on making a pilgrimage to meet her in person one day.
Yeah, I've talked to mom and Makenzie a lot more. Actually, I've been spending a lot of time with them lately. And yeah, mom is still with him, unfortunately. She's talking abotu moving back soon.
I decided to go to Alma. It's not too far away, but not too close, either. And I really like it there. And yes, I'm going to major in Foreign Language. Actually, I'm going to double major in French and German. And eventually, I'll take ASL classes at CMU.
Didn't get to go to a protest, but I did go to a Pride Festival with Will. It was super fun, even if I did chafe the insides of my thighs.... And yes, I'm still planning to join the GSA club at Alma.
Of course I'm still a Mibbian. I'm never to busy to not be one. And yes, I still write fan-fiction and I'm still hung up on slash. I don't think I'll ever get tired of it. My writing has changed a little bit, but not much. But I'm writing mostly Frerards instead of Rydons (I still haven't figured out
why...).
Yes I do. Got it in January.
I do! And it runs pretty well. Except when it decides to stall....
Josh Jr. is doing good. He's cute, but spoiled. And I have no idea if they're still together or not. All I know is that Josh is pretty much a dead-beat baby daddy.
Sadly, I never got one. I think it's the whole summer birthday thing.
The family's good. Dad got a girlfriend. She's really nice, and she has four kids. They really love dad. And from what I hear, they really like me, too. So it's all good.
Yes, of course I still complain about things I can't control. It's my thing.
Nope. And I don't think I will, either. Going to the Metro for the big one eight. So it's safe to say that I won't have a spranged ankle for my birthday this year.
Sadly, no. I didn't get to see either of them. But I did see Panic! again. And it was
so much better this time around.
Nope. Tongue isn't pierced yet. I think I might hold off for a while.
Not yet, but Grandma is paying for my first one. It's her birthday/graduation present to me. I'm so excited.
Eventually, I will. Just have to find the right time to learn.
No, I didn't. I couldn't get into them. But I'll be talking ASL in about a year and a half, so check back then.
Yes, I did! I went to my prom and Plainwell's. Both were fun, but I liked the second one better.
Nope. I didn't have the time or the money.
No. I really wanted to, but I think the Michigan chapter is dead.
Yes.
Of course. And I have some new ones that I like. (Fun, for example. They're awesome.)
And the knees are getting better. They don't hurt as much.
Sincerely, your present self.